Can you imagine a world where kids understand the words and meaning of self-worth, resilience, empathy…
I think that would heal our world, but to start to teach kids a word they maybe have to be able to pronounce it and you kind of need them to have an understanding of its true meaning. I am 50 years old and I had to look up the meaning of emotional resilience!
I write children’s books about a lad called Ollie. Ollie has super powers. These super powers are his emotions. Through my training as a therapist I teach kids that they do have control of their superpowers and that only they can control them and choose what super power they want to utilise to get them through stuff. Through the Ollie stories we playfully and very simplistically introduce the concepts of resilience and empathy. Only then do we use the big words.
I believe there are no bad kids. I believe all behaviour serves a purpose, usually a positive or protective purpose. And that our youngsters don’t always have the emotional understanding or language to explain where they are at sometimes and that all they can do is use the emotions we resort to in heightened emotional states, happy, angry sad etc.
Imagine a world where kids get empathy…. What would that world look like? Through the Ollie books I am doing all I can to try and ensure future generations will get to live in that world.
* Disclaimer : results may vary from person to person