All I have read and heard about in the media over the last period is about the stress, anxiety and emotional wellbeing of people and how everything is getting too much. I have also seen an increase in the number of my clients coming to me with related issues.
If an issue is so big its very difficult to be in the ‘moment’. Or if that phone keeps ringing, people keep asking you questions or you have a full diary you may not have the any time to think. And that’s important.
I have been very lucky to be able to take time away from the phone, from actual work, and from other people to appreciate the beauty around me but to also give me time to think and arrange my thoughts, to plan my year ahead and to do something that I really enjoy – fishing.
I can’t recommend enough doing something you love or enjoy. Taking time for you.
We are warned when we are training about the ‘BURN OUT’ but I don’t think it matters what you do for a living or who you are as it can happen to all of us.
Its all too easy to swallow the stress of getting the job down, the ferrying of your kids about, paying the mortgage and you just keep going – pushing through because if you don’t who will and every other story you tell yourself.
Take it from me, it is so important to find a way to say NO, (if this offends I would suggest you question the relationship!). Take time away. An hour in the bath with a non work related book, sit in Hyde Park the listening to music, go fishing, play tennis, whatever is your thing – the world won’t end.
DON’T ignore your bodies warning signals, telling yourself ‘it will be alright’ your just tired…. Down time from whatever you do is so very important and not taking it will result in you not be able to do the things that you want or need to do.
Remember, when on a plane you are told to put your oxygen mask on first so you are strong enough to help others. Nothing you think you have to do is more important than YOU. If you don’t listen to what your body is telling you, then you wont be able to do the things that are in front of you.
No, I’m not burnt out, but I do have lots on and it’s a timely reminder to ask you all to remember: TAKE TIME FOR YOU xxx
Wow what an accolade! Ali has been nominated for an international award for NLP training in Education.
She has been been selected, from those nominated, by an independent panel. The finalists have been chosen on the how they have demonstrated the use of NLP in making a marked difference in the specified area.
The review below explains why Ali has been nominated.
“I met Ali a year ago and she has done so much to transform my family’s lives for the better since then. I couldn’t think of anyone better placed to be nominated for (and maybe to win!) an All in the Mind award.
I was recommended Ali for my son who was dealing with anxiety about 11+ exams. Ali dispensed with those problems in our first free Skype session and went on to help my son with the social problems he was having at school. In a few months he went from dreading school to actively looking forward to going in, and ended the school year winning the school talent contest and with a headmistress’s award for a great attitude towards school.
Amazed by my son’s transformation I apprehensively introduced Ali to my 8 year old daughter, who has been struggling with trichotillomania for around 3 years. She had had a string of therapists – all of whom had been ineffectual – but I was beginning to feel that if anyone could help, Ali could. My daughter was a difficult proposition, she is smart and manipulative and wised up to all the tricks in every therapists’ book. Ali recognised this immediately and also saw that my daughter’s biggest problem was that she was addicted to the attention she got from therapists and therefore had no motivation to stop pulling her hair out. Fast forward 6 months and Edie has gone nearly 40 days without pulling – a personal record.
Ali has a gift – she is not only incredibly astute about the root cause of different children’s problems but she uses her knowledge to reach different personalities in different ways, uniquely mixing her personal blend of “Ollie and his Superpowers”, hypnotherapy and NLP. Her methods seem so simple but the best ideas – the ones that can actually revolutionise the way we do things – almost always are.
Ali has helped me so much personally as well – not only through helping my children to become so much happier and fulfil their potential – but also by recognising that I needed help myself with the anxiety, negativity and perfectionism that was clouding my judgement about my children and myself. I really can speak from first hand experience about the way Ali appears to ‘see through’ a person and unlock the root cause of their ‘baggage’ – the kind so many of us have and that stops us from getting the most out of our lives.
I don’t know where myself or my family would be today without Ali. She has helped us immeasurably and I truly think she’s some sort of therapist genius (between my children and I we have seen at least 7 other therapists and one time or another so I have points of comparison!)
I hope Ali/Ollie and his Superpowers wins this award because I know that her dream is to help as many children as possible at as little cost as possible, and this award would bring that dream a step closer to becoming a reality.” Polly
To find out more about training with Alison please go to https://www.ollieandhissuperpowers.com/pages/become-an-ollie-coach
Anxiety and Stress are increasing in our every day lives whether it be at work or at home. But there are ways to put what ever is causing the anxiety or stress back into perspective so that you can be more effective at work and be happier at home *.
Ali runs study days that gives you techniques that will help you manage your stress and anxiety. You will learn how to spot a potential situation that may lead to stress and anxiety and you will learn how to adapt your language to help manage a situation either at work or at home.
Ali recently worked with a group of midwives.
The East and North Hertfordshire RCM Branch organised a study day mid February as part of the Caring for you Campaign. It was a very successful day and commenced with Katie Chilton (our Head of Midwifery) talking about the Campaign; what she had already put in place and her future plans. The main aim of the study day was to positively support our RCM member’s wellbeing at work. The day was presented by Ali Knowles who is a Cognitive Hypnotherapist and NLP Practitioner. The day included an introduction to NLP stress and anxiety relief techniques and strategies to deal with bullying in the workplace.
Working as a midwife can at times be difficult, making us feel vulnerable and inducing a sense of disillusion when our emotional wellbeing is not being addressed. Ali taught us some great tools to deal with these unacceptable situations. It was both a thought provoking and empowering day and has given all the attendees some skills and techniques to put in place. The day ended with some deep relaxation and hypnotherapy to engender feelings of empowerment. Ali and her team had amazing energy and overall it was a positive day.
We would like to thank all the midwives who attended in their own time and supported the day and Gloucester ward for providing the funds for sandwiches; everyone who baked cakes which were a great hit and all that gave up their time in organising the event to make this day possible.
Feedback of the study day included “it was one of the best study days I’ve attended” “it was such a great day” “I have gained some really good skills which I hope to put in place”.
If you would like more information on how to arrange a study day please contact Ali on
Ali@thehypnohut.com or give her a call 07546068881
* Disclaimer: results may vary from person to person